Okay, 3rd attempt. I got some tips from
@herrubermensch and gave it another go. I used a bungee cord instead of rubber bands but the short story is that you wrap the where the pipes come together and install all 5 at the same time. There was a tip to lower the engine a couple of inches on the passenger side but I haven't given up yet, mostly because I can't.
From now on it's 1st, 2nd, 3rd. I can't keep the cylinders straight in my head. Passenger side.
So on the first try I got the 3rd one on as recommend but couldn't get the 4th one on. Those two are a must because the nuts get covered by the other header pipes. On the second try I was able to get the 3rd and 4th pipe on together. Here's a tip, if you don't have big guns like Peter get a strap under where the pipes come together to hold the assembly up while you rest your arms.
So now you have the 3rd and 4th pipe on the engine, how do you get the nuts on? You need a long extension and a 12mm swivel socket, not a swivel and a socket. The 3rd pipe upper you can see until you put the nut and socket in place. The 3rd lower you place in-between your fingers backwards and slide your hand up under the headers along the block to get it started. After that you can use a wrench to tighten it. The 4th pipe lower comes in from the side with the other pipes loose with the swivel socket. The 4th pipe upper you have to look straight up from the bottom wiggling the other pipes out of the way to see it.
The 5th pipe is on but I haven't figured out how to get the nuts on, YET! The 1st & 2nd pipes will be easy, relatively speaking. They do have to go in together because the 1st pipe will block the 2nd pipe flange.
Finally, you will see a pry bar and a zip tie holding the assembly up while I started and tightened the 4th pipe upper nut. I can't imagine how difficult this was for
@herrubermensch with the subframe in place!