hey milani, sorry if you take it as a flame or an insult, but the whole i-drive thing has been discussed to death.
If you look through the threads regarding SMG (and many of the others) you will find that I am one of the ones who actually likes to shift for myself. In fact, as far as I am concerned, the biggest problem with the E60 M5 is that it will be SMG only, at least initially. If you were to see my collection of cars, you might notice that only two are automatic transmissions, all of the others are traditional manuals. One is a truck, the other is a purpose built drag car. I don't want to deal with shifting while towing or off-roading in the truck, and I found that the auto makes my drag car more consistant. So, I am not one who "would take a flappy paddle gearbox over a conventional manual gearbox any day." The SMG might just be enough reason for me to NOT get one.
iDrive? I couldn't care less, as long as whatever is in the car is at least as good as the system in the E39, which iDrive2 is IMHO. The computer interface in the E39s is junk.
The problem with pointing out the problems of a system such as iDrive is that you haven't actually driven a car WITH iDrive. Definately not one with iDrive2. So, how can you be a judge of how good or bad the system is? As I said, I haven't had to change a single thing in the times I have driven cars with iDrive2. Jerry once pointed out one feature that required iDrive to change that could be an issue for me, if memory serves it was to change CDs in the changer. Temp controls, radio presets, switching between CD and radio, heated seats on and off (and levels as well it appears).. all on the dash.
As e46m3 points out, phone dialer could be a real pain in the butt, but since I don't use the built in phones (all of the BMW ones sound like crap on the other end I think), this isn't a problem for me. However I realize his point and openly admit that it is a real design flaw. But at least his example is a real world description of the problem, unlike the heat change in the middle of a ripped shift in the middle of a tight turn, or changing CD tracks while talking with passengers. As I said, the heat change is a button on the dash. Even sitting in a E60 or E63 will display how simple that adjustment is. As pointed out, the track change could be handled by a voice command, or go figure, by the button on the dash or even better, the button on the steering wheel.
So, it seems to me that you are basing your judgements on half education of the systems.
And finally, in all of the cars that I have ever driven except for one rental, I have never "punched" a gear, or "ripped" a shift. I have "popped" the clutch, but that definately is not the fastest way from point A to point B. It is however the fastest way to the repair shop. I have witnessed first hand the results of such heavy handed wanna be racer driving styles. They usually end with lots of broken parts such as gears, syncronizers, u joints, half shafts, etc. Do you also use "Naus"?