It really depends on who your dealing with. The dealer might be very strict and say no, since you don't have the required Dinan parts to jump up to the higher level software or if they are lax then they might simply do it for the money, and not promise you any results and no refund.
More than likely they will not do it as they have to input data into the "MIP" software program downloader/uploader. The prompts ask the installer a series of questions, which have to be answered along with the car's VIN #, mileage, current existing Dinan parts, etc........ so either they lie and chance the risk of getting caught by Dinan and lose their relationship with Dinan or they might be penny wise and dollar foolish and do this for you at the risk of getting caught. Dinan's contract is very strict and serious about breach of contact or voilation of their rules. based on this alone I don't think they will risk their business relationship with Dinan.