Don't know if it is the same as the e30, but I just did one on my 325i and it went like this:
Unbolt driveshaft from imput shaft on diff.
Unbolt half shafts from output shafts on diff.
Unbolt rear diff mount (the bolt that goes thru the big circular bushing (leave bolt in place though to support diff.
Unbolt top 2 bolts (highest ones on the diff, further back then the other 2 lower ones.
Support front of diff.
Remove front 2 bolts from top of diff.
Remove rear mount bolt and drop the diff.
The top 4 bolts were a ***** to get to for me. Deffinitely helps with a friend. A good friend that doesn't get offended when you get pissy because the diff bolts won't come off.