Hello
I would first get a TRUE understanding of the torque & power curve.
I hate rolling roads but in this instance, if power & torque are as high as claimed, then prove it to yourself.
What really kills these transmissions mechanically is 1st & 2nd gear hard usage from cold.
It should be remembered that even with a 30 degrees C ambient, the oil in the transmission will be the last lubricant / coolant on the car to reach working temperature.
At the opposite end of the scale, high speed driving for extended periods overheats the oil & breaks it down.
When this happens, any metal debris in the transmission becomes a cutting compund with the oil & starts to work on the surface hardened & heat treated faces of the gear sets.
Does the car come with proven history of regular transmission oil changes ?
Is your Getrag whining in any or all of the gears on drive or coast ?
Is their any perceived backlash when you drive in fourth (1:1) at 30-40 mph
Open & close the throttle in rapid succession to excite the transmission.
No big clonks or slop on pick up ?
Assume the transmission is good then.
If you drive lots of extended high speed or track days days, I would do the following :-
If power proves to be as you have been told, I would take the course of running an auxilliary trans cooler. Apump, a modine & Earls autoflex with associated connectors, an inline wax stat designed to open the circuit above 100 degrees C
This will improve cooling & extend life of the oil & preven it becoming a cutting compund.
With reference to the clutch.
Address the oil leak.
Are you doing a lot of hard launches for dragging or 1/4 mile runs..?
Is your present cover std or increased stiffness / greater clampload.
Personally, I would use a std friction disc with a stiffer clamp load cover OR an uprated friction disc with A std cover.
You have to change a lot of clutches to reach the cost of one transmission & saving it would be my priority.
Heres the rub.
I would bet one of my gonads that your engine is not producing 380 bhp @ the flywheel including parasitic lossses.
It certainly wont make as much torque as the Supercharged DB7 so I dont recommend an alternative transmission & bespoke bell hsg etc.
If it does, I will go under my car & work out the cooler installation for you & what parts you will require to make the system up.
Hows that for a deal !
Seriously, Im happy to help anyway I can & if as I suspect, that your engine is performing @ around good 3.8 level of performance, go get std o/e parts.
They will be fine.
Farrell